Subtle relations between couples
As human nature, we try to learn how to get along well with other people since the moment we were born. Babies know how to catch the attention of their parents, as well as those surroundings; students try to figure out how to blend in a friend circle. While the case for the adults seem much more complicated. Each matured human being need to handle with complex social relations. Among various of them, relationship between couples is, in my opinion, the most difficult one to face. As below there are three points to demonstrate my view.
Firstly, couple need to show more love and patience to each other; as well as try to accept the shortcomings of another half. Yesterday my husband was suppose to take me to park since the weather was very nice. when he came back from work in the morning. He prepared well everything at the fastest speed. But I was deeply attracted by the novel so that ignored his sense of feelings. So he went out alone when everything was ready. You can obviously imagine how much angry I was. So I lost my sleep last night and felt very aggrieved. While he thought that was my mistake to ruin a lovely day even I don't think so though. But in long time we live together, both us make mistake. No forgiveness means no future.
Secondly. people hurts the one who love you the most. In our daily life, we are afraid of hurting others; but we are never fear of hurting those who deeply love us. For example, our parents, mates, lady-bro, best friends etc. The reason why we have such feelings because these people would never ever hurt us for any reason. We squander the true relationship unscrupulously because we know he/she will forgive us finally.
Thirdly, the paradoxical and special feelings for each other. Have you ever hated him or her in an abnormal mood? Have you ever thought that his life is more important than yours when danger is around the corner? It is says that a woman who loves you is willing to give birth to a baby for you even there is tremendous pain waiting for her. It is says that a man can bravely lose his life to protect his girl. Both love and hate between couples are all at the extreme stage. Sometimes we wish that another half could die when she/he hurts you; while mostly we sincerely hope that he/she live a happier life than ourselves forever. That's strange relations between couples.
Today I still feel very upset about yesterday. My eyes is still sore because of insomnia last night. But at the bottom of my heart, I already forgive him because I know that he is suffering the same.